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I'm so annoyed, there is this site that I’m an admin of and this one guy called Gaara. And he is rude to me because I deleted one of his posts. It was taking the micky out of another member because he made a video of him self high on weed. So I deleted it, but know he will not keep his mouth shut in the other treads, saying I’m a bad admin and such.

I just feel like banning him for 2 or 4 days.

He even said it in this own words, he only respect's his uncle. And every one else he don't care about. But know there is a Mod saying Gaara has a point.

Man I feel like telling him to STFU! But I can not because I’m an admin.

"Sparx" wrote:I'm so annoyed, there is this site that I’m an admin of and this one guy called Gaara. And he is rude to me because I deleted one of his posts. It was taking the micky out of another member because he made a video of him self high on weed. So I deleted it, but know he will not keep his mouth shut in the other treads, saying I’m a bad admin and such.

I just feel like banning him for 2 or 4 days.

He even said it in this own words, he only respect's his uncle. And every one else he don't care about. But know there is a Mod saying Gaara has a point.

Well I can't say what Gaara's point is in the mind of the other moderator, but if he's going off topic here and there by attacking you, that isn't something I would tolerate if I were there.

"Sparx" wrote:Man I feel like telling him to STFU! But I can not because I’m an admin.

It's definitely better to avoid saying something like this. Just try to remain calm, although I know it can be difficult since this is a place you like and that person makes it hard for you to enjoy it.

Try not to take things online personally. People often say or do things online they would never say in your face, and since it's so easy to meet all kinds of people here, I'd say we're bound to encounter unpleasant people. We also can't make somebody change their minds even though we know what they believe is wrong.

I personally try as much as possible to not let what happens on the Internet have an effect on my "real" life. When I start to get mad over something, or when I start thinking about it during the day, usually it's time to either just try to keep things in perspective or take a bit of a break. After that, things don't affect me as much and I think I see everything more clearly. But I know it's sometimes hard to do.

Thanks Astro Forever.

It's hard if i have anger problems

And the other Mod is 35. i'm just 15. and i think gaara is 19 or 20.

Yes, that can make it more difficult. But if you say or do something while you are too emotional, you will regret it.

Yeah true, so now i'm just staying "yeap yeap, whatever." and he is cussing me like mad, so i will let another Admin sort it.

"Sparx" wrote:Yeah true, so now i'm just staying "yeap yeap, whatever." and he is cussing me like mad, so i will let another Admin sort it.

That's a good idea. Hopefully it will be peaceful again soon there!

Yeah it's getting there

I'm the youngest on the site too