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I've got some baaaaad news! :'(

Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 1:25 pm
by Anime Girl
Well you see I got this friend of mine named Konnor Fink. He's in my marching band class. Well, I found out he's gonna be moving away. I'm gonna be really sad. My band class is gonna be having a surprise going away party for him on Thursday. I have a secret. I like him, I mean I LIKE like him. He's really sweet, funny, and when I saw him at the homecoming dance in that suit, a little hansome. I've been keeping this secret from him ever since middle school. Should I tell him how I feel before he moves away?

Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 1:35 pm
by Gotta Love ASTRO BOY
Hhmm you could tell him, or you could get his phone number and email so you don't accually have to stop talking to him.

Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 3:45 pm
by Satus
Friends moving away is always sad, I hope you adjust. But before he does move, I do think you should tell him.

Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 3:58 pm
by the 鉄腕アトム fan
i think you should tell in Anime Girl!

Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 4:23 pm
by Bigdog
"Anime Girl 16" wrote:Well you see I got this friend of mine named Konnor Fink. He's in my marching band class. Well, I found out he's gonna be moving away. I'm gonna be really sad. My band class is gonna be having a surprise going away party for him on Thursday. I have a secret. I like him, I mean I LIKE like him. He's really sweet, funny, and when I saw him at the homecoming dance in that suit, a little hansome. I've been keeping this secret from him ever since middle school. Should I tell him how I feel before he moves away?


You should definitely tell him, get to know him more and stay in touch. Who knows, he might just be the one you'll be with eternity. Just tell him your feelings so you can lose the burden on your shoulders because it will only get worse if you fail to do so . It's better to have your feelings all out and not having them reciprocated then never finding out and regretting your lack of action. Trust me , I'm going through something similar, though I've known her since High School .

Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 5:17 pm
by AprilSeven
I agree with Bigdog . . . Konnor may turn out to be someone sweet you'll always cherish, or - who knows? - he could be "the one," but only by opening up to him can you set the possibilities free!

I'm sorry to hear he's leaving, but you may find this event actually brings you closer! Life is so full of ironic situations! Best of luck to you!

Tell him! Tell him!

Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2011 5:58 pm
by Novacain
"Anime Girl 16" wrote:Well you see I got this friend of mine named Konnor Fink. He's in my marching band class. Well, I found out he's gonna be moving away. I'm gonna be really sad. My band class is gonna be having a surprise going away party for him on Thursday. I have a secret. I like him, I mean I LIKE like him. He's really sweet, funny, and when I saw him at the homecoming dance in that suit, a little hansome. I've been keeping this secret from him ever since middle school. Should I tell him how I feel before he moves away?


Sheesh, that's not so baaaaad!

It's a minor disappointment that life is unfortunately full of. :rolleyes:

Like Bigdog and AprilSeven said, maybe he's the one and and this hiccup may just bring you both "closer", even though he is moving away.

And I also agree with everyone - I'd tell him... Had you started a poll it would have been a once sided win for sure! :lol:
The worst that could happen is you experience another minor disappointment if his feelings are not reciprocated - and if he as sweet as you say perhaps the beginning of a strong friendship.

Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 1:33 am
by Bigdog
"Novacain" wrote:[QUOTE=Anime Girl 16;176879]Well you see I got this friend of mine named Konnor Fink. He's in my marching band class. Well, I found out he's gonna be moving away. I'm gonna be really sad. My band class is gonna be having a surprise going away party for him on Thursday. I have a secret. I like him, I mean I LIKE like him. He's really sweet, funny, and when I saw him at the homecoming dance in that suit, a little hansome. I've been keeping this secret from him ever since middle school. Should I tell him how I feel before he moves away?


Sheesh, that's not so baaaaad!

It's a minor disappointment that life is unfortunately full of. :rolleyes:

Like Bigdog and AprilSeven said, maybe he's the one and and this hiccup may just bring you both "closer", even though his is moving away.

And I also agree with everyone - I'd tell him... Had you started a poll it would have been a once sided win for sure! :lol:
The worst that could happen is you experience another minor disappointment if his feelings are not reciprocated - and if he as sweet as you say perhaps the beginning of a strong friendship.[/QUOTE]

It's just better to find out rather than wondering about the road less traveled. Read that poem AnimeGirl15. It might inspire you.

Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 7:29 am
by atoms_gf
You should tell him that as soon as you see him!
-If he says yes, get his personal information like his phone number and all. :)
-If he says no, it's his loss. and he's moving away so you don't need to feel guilty. :)
keep that determination in your heart! you could have the best time ever, just from saying one sentance. but don't make it too long.

Posted: Fri Oct 21, 2011 7:40 am
by diehard67
definitely tell him and get contact information if you didn't already, keep in touch with em, if nothing else then you can have a good friend.

if it is meant to go farther then friendship then it will, just let it go there on it's own.

and good luck.