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i need advice about something

Postby Solarcat20 » 13 years ago

here's the whole story, background info: i had crushes on both astro boy & a guy who just graduated from my school, he also has autism like me, i didn't know how to tell him, later after graduation, my little sister told me that he kissed her on the cheek, i was furious, so furious that i punched my pillow accross the room. (i actually had a dream that night, i don't remember all of it, where astro says, but i didn't like what happened to you either. hmm maybe i can punch him?" :shifty: . you have a lot to do in your life, you don't need a guy like that. ;) ) i went to ask my psychology teacher what to do, she told me that he doesn't know what's really going on cause nobody told him anything, a guy should not come between me & my sister, later my sis & i called a truce. then i wondered if maybe the kissing thing was something harmless, in some cultures, they kiss cheeks as friends. :unsure: WRONG! :mad: today, i saw this in my youtube inbox (we subscribed to each other's channels, when i told him i subscirbed to his channel, he seemed to be happy) How is your sister (didn't want to use her real name) I would like her to hang out with me sometime. Is that alright with her? it hurts, then yet he's the kind of guy that when a girl says hi to him, he thinks that they have 'the hots' for him, i heard it among my friends at school. i'll give my sister that message, now's her chance to tell him that she doesn't see him that way. i know it ain't my sister's fault that the guy's a fool. what should i do? :confused:

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Postby Novacain » 13 years ago

Your teacher is right, a guy should not come between siblings! Family is much more important than a crush. It sounds like even though this guy would like to be your friend, he would also like to benefit from that friendship to also get to know your sister better... I hope your sister makes the right decision in this case.

The only thing I can suggest you do is to respect whatever decision your sister makes, even if it isn't easy. Hope everything works out! :)

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Postby Solarcat20 » 13 years ago

thanks Novacain :) i told my sister about that message. she thinks that what he did was tackless & that she doesn't want to hang out with him. :)

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Postby Novacain » 13 years ago

You're welcome!

I'm glad everything worked out between you and your sister :)


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