I was 10 years old when I "succeeded", so no surprise I couldn't handle the situation

That was surely some kind of excitation. I remember that just after becoming Lucid, I felt I was awakening. I began morphing the environment while shouting "I am going to awaken!" repeatedly. Although the morphing did work, I still awaken, thus the failure

I will have a look on your site, maybe I will find useful tips, but obviously what I need is time, experience, and patience. Above all patience

Originally posted by Danny
Usually, if I do realise it is a dream, I can then pretty much do whatever I like from that point on. However, it IS just like "the matrix", as in I can only do what it occurs to me to do. Most of my activities from that point on have "wish fullfillment" characteristics, altho sometimes the 'story' of the dream is really interesting and so I continue to "play along" to see where it will lead. Unfortunately when this occurs I am usually so aware of it being a dream that I usually ruin it by constantly second guessing myself "Is this what I would do if I did not know I was dreaming? Would that over there really look like that if I did not know i was dreaming?" etc. This is particularly frustrating for me, as it seems most of my best ideas for short stories and the like come to me during my dreams, and I constantly yell at myself for "ruining the story" by becoming aware.
When one is dreaming without awarenes, according to my experience, the dreamer has a similar status than other people in the dream. When I dream I often do things I never do, or even would never had the idea to do. When I think about what I did in a dream, I often ask myself why I did such a strange thing.
Once I had very clear and very long dreams (but not lucid in the sense I was not aware it was a dream during the dream itself). They appeared to long for hours :wacko: After awakening I could almost have written an entire novell by dumping my dream on the paper

Although sometimes totally crazy compared to the real word, they were generally self-consistent. But my actions in them remained a total mystery

That's only since a few months that I am again having dreams that I can remember, although they are short compared to the ones I had years ago.
What I am hoping with lucid dreams is to become Lucid during such a "novell dream" and take over to explore this "virtual universe". I am sure I can find very interesting things in it

I do not expect to remain a spectator by becoming Lucid, because as you said, becoming aware that it is a dream must change the dream as the dreamer automatically becomes an active actor instead of being a simple spectator. I know that if I succeed in mastering my dreams I will change forever my "nocturne life"

Anyway even now I can remember again parts of my dreams I am still not able to understand their meaning, so by influencing them I may be able to "ask questions"

And if this lead to nowhere, at least I will be able to have a good time in my dreams, or using them as an enhanced "secret garden"

The real sign that someone has become a fanatic is that he completely loses his sense of humor about some important facet of his life. When humor goes, it means he's lost his perspective.
Wedge Antilles
Star Wars - Exile